No matter the age difference (mine is almost 9 years! They adore your mind, your ability to make strong decisions, a well-kept body and even a few gray hairs. It brings a continual spark to the whole relationship and gives each of you something to always think about. I might even throw in a road trip or two, just to make sure that we’ve covered all the bases of our togetherness and can actually stand each other after spending so much time in the car. As long as I love him and show it, patience comes through in spades. ), the energy that this man infuses to my life on a daily—no, make that hourly—basis is the epitome of new-found bliss. Sometimes I find myself figuring out ways to revert to old behaviors and try to squash his enthusiasm. If a younger man loves an older woman to the core, there’s no stopping the forward momentum on a very exciting path. A younger man gets inspiration from your evolution into being an older woman. Don’t try to appease him by agreeing with everything he says. Have your own opinions and share conversation based on opposing ideas. This is a no-brainer, as a younger man wants his older woman to keep up with him, in both word and deed. The endorphins need to keep flowing for this partnership to last, and daily exercise and a healthy diet will keep the heart and body on fire. Maca is available in health food stores, it helps the endocrine system, balances hormones, increases vitality, energy and sexuality in both men and women, and has been my savior since I hit that “change of life” we so often dread in our 50’s. It’s as if you have a hall pass to get silly and crazy together. Travel together and the experience of the partnership just went up a notch. My pistons aren’t firing like they were back in my 30’s, but hey, he doesn’t care. A spiritual practice is essential in keeping up with a younger man. Well, when you are centered and confident and happy, the younger man will follow in your footsteps. Before long, you are sharing this incredible way of living and the peace and serenity together moves you both forward on a spiritual path. He’s looking up to you in many ways, and admiring the knowledge that you bring to the table. Maca root is a supplement derived from the jungles of Peru. You would think I had learned this from my native side, but when I discovered the benefits of maca, my libido had a jump start and wasn’t hiding out in some cave anymore. Nothing says “romance” like a vacation to a beach resort or any vacation spot where the newness of the environment stirs your souls. Dating a younger man requires patience on all levels—with yourself and your man. Just because you are older by even a few years, that doesn’t give you a license to nag, obsess, shame or guilt your younger man. He is with you to share, to love, and to spend quality time together.
Try not to allow judgement from others sway your love for each other. Sure you have some potential disagreements and conflict. I was always a bit of a late-bloomer, and being with a younger man somehow keeps me in a forever-inspired mode. They aren’t for everyone, but as someone who has been in a very rewarding partnership for some time now, I can honestly say that I would never go back.Nine women dish on what they've learned from playing cougar.
As the saying goes, "You're only as old as the man you're feeling." So, are Madonna, Mariah, and J-Lo all on to something with their considerably younger beaus?
Or should we take a lesson from Demi and avoid robbing cradles? They're Not As Independent"Most of my ex's were younger.