What to write on the first email on dating


There’s a fine line between underselling yourself and blowing your own trumpet when it comes to dating online. Follow these dos and don’ts gleaned from thousands of couples matched by e Harmony and move from online relationship to the real deal.



If in doubt, it helps to draft an email, walk away and return an hour later to review it, edit it and, when satisfied, hit send.This will halt any tendency towards verbal diarrhea and keep your match on their toes.Once you’ve caught their interest you can afford to be a bit more creative.Ask thought-provoking questions that will reveal insightful traits.

Take the experience of Paul who met his fiancée Stephanie through e Harmony.

“The more I read her responses to my questions it was like she was reading my mind! “Within 2 days, we exchanged phone numbers.” Just a few simple sentences can stop someone in their tracks.